In the flow of church life, events come and go. When our church building was in a neighborhood in South St. Paul, the church held an annual Thanksgiving meal for the residents living near the church property. When the church moved to our Robert Street location, we left the neighborhood. Hosting a Thanksgiving meal for commuters on 494 did not have the same appeal.
I grew up in the Baptist church and have served as a pastor in three Baptist churches. Before moving to Minnesota, I had never attended a Good Friday service. I never attended because Baptist churches didn’t hold Good Friday services. That’s what the Catholics and Lutherans did.
The New Testament gives the church only a limited admonition for when it meets. The first is implied. The church is to meet regularly on the first day of the week (Acts 20:7; 1 Corinthians 16:1-2), that is, the Lord’s Day, so called because Sunday is the day Jesus rose from the grave. The second is direct. When the church gathers, the members of that local church are to make every effort to participate in the gathering (Hebrews 10:25). Beyond that, there seems to be a good deal of freedom for when the church meets. For reasons unique to churches, some local assemblies may meet more than their Sunday gatherings, but none should meet less.
No Good Friday Services for Baptists
In my Baptist heritage, we met more. In addition to our Sunday morning gathering, we came back every Sunday night. We never took a week off. Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Fourth of July, you name it, we held a church service. In the middle of the week, we met again on Wednesday nights. On the yearly calendar, we convened for a weeklong evangelistic meeting in the spring and another weeklong revival meeting in the fall. A missions conference filled one more week of our annual church calendar. Baptists liked those week of meetings. They were good for the church and good for our efforts at reaching our family and friends with the gospel of Jesus. What we didn’t do was meet on Good Friday.
Our resistance to a Good Friday meeting was born from our reticence to resemble anything Catholic. And there’s good reason for reticence. The Roman Catholic Church does not teach the gospel of grace. It is not the protestant churches that left “the holy catholic Church” but the church at Rome that left, but let’s save that for another time.
One of the Good Friday practices of the Roman church is retracing the Stations of the Cross. Historians suggest the ritual has its roots in the 15th century when pilgrims walked the Via Dolorosa, the path some believe Jesus took over the course of the day of his death. Since most will not make their way to Jerusalem, local Catholic churches make the exercise possible by creating stations around a church sanctuary. At a particular station, a congregant might make religious signs, offer prayers, and engage in other acts of worship. Baptists and other evangelicals reject the practice for a myriad of reasons including the breaking of the second commandment.
In error, more than a few later Baptists rejected the premise that Jesus died on Friday. I remember this from my youth. Instead of reading the Bible plainly like we all should do, these Baptists needed to concoct a timeline that had Jesus in the tomb for three, 24-hour days. To accomplish the feat, these wrongly contended Jesus died on Thursday, and some fools even preached he died on Wednesday. For them, the concept of a Good Friday service conflicts with the New Testament because in their thinking, he didn’t die on Friday. B may not only stand for Baptist but also for Bizarre.
Our Good Friday Worship
Two decades ago, our pastors thought we were missing out on an opportunity to gather the church for a unique kind of worship service, a Good Friday service. As all worship services should be, the Good Friday service focuses on the Scriptures, specifically the passion narratives of the gospels. Each Spring we turn to a different gospel. Church members read aloud as we follow our Lord’s steps from the Upper Room to his burial. It is a moving experience for the church to read the Holy Spirit’s record of our Lord’s death. Interspersed between the readings, we sing hymns old and new that express our response to what we read. I preach a sermon from the passion text we read, and then we leave the building, somewhat somber as we reflect on our Lord’s sacrifice.
An important aspect of our Good Friday worship is the tension we feel as we wait for Sunday.
Low in the grave He lay, Jesus my Savior,
waiting the coming day, Jesus my Lord!
When we gather on Easter Sunday, the tension releases. So, we sing…
Up from the grave he arose;
with a mighty triumph o'er his foes;
he arose a victor from the dark domain,
and he lives forever, with his saints to reign.
He arose! He arose! Hallelujah! Christ arose!
But our tension is not fully released because we are waiting for our Lord’s return. We long for Jesus to come to us and right all the wrongs instituted by our fall. In addition to all a Good Friday service does for us as we reflect on our Lord’s passion, in my opinion, Good Friday services help us as we “wait for His Son from heaven, whom He raised from the dead, even Jesus who delivers us from the wrath to come” (1 Thessalonians 1:10). With confidence that Jesus rose from the dead on the third day, we live with the same confidence that he will return.
Why should the disciples wait three days for Jesus to rise again? Why not three hours or overnight? I suspect part of the reason is to teach all disciples to wait for Jesus’s second coming.
So, like those first disciples, we wait for him. By his grace we commit to live faithfully to him until the day.
As always, thanks for reading, and I welcome your feedback and any suggestions you might have for an upcoming Lunchtime Musing.